It’s been awhile. I’ve gotten a partial pension settlement and had teeth and eye surgury which was covered 100% by an organization. Not only that but my ex husband needed me to sign off on a car my son had anaccident in and he gave me 600 for the write off. He told me he is retiring in July 2020 which means I’ll be getting a pension for life. My ex bf married his gf and is miserable. I work at km and I see people that tell me w out me asking. I’m planning on moving to a different state in 3 yrs and buying a home. I’ve come a looooong way but I’m finally reaping what I deserve.