Divorce tragedy

Well the guy who owns the house has been video taping me apparently accusing me of lying to him when we aren't even in a relationship he has me followed and keeps tabs on my blogs and Facebook I've had enough where I may b going I won't have to pay rent which means money for storage and more for real estate. I also found out that I was paying more than I should have which means I was bieng ripped off. He's coiniving selfish self centered and self absorbed I'm getting out soon then I won't have to worry about his psycho bullshit no more. He's waiting for an inheritance that's going to make him a bad ass again. If it wasn't for his parents he wouldn't even own a damn house pride and fools are ignorant of each other but when they come together makes a perfect storm for KARMA BITCH

Divorce tragedy

The person who owns the house I live in has left me at a bar to spend the night w his ex wife's sister 2 years ago she has a history w him as friends and she got so wasted she had to be taken home which is not close and the person who owns the house left me w no way to get home and his ex wife told me I could stay w her even though she was having a party in the morning he's also not come home claiming he was too drunk and slept on a strangers couch when he couldve taken a taxi home. I'm human and make mistakes but I'm constantly reminded of them so the one doing the judging can never look at his own doings. What's that saying the one doing wrong feels guilty for whatever they are doing and turns it around to the other person. I'm not  saying he is but he's done a lot of damage to me and feel it's abusive to instill fear of not bieng able to live where I'm able to build myself up bcz I have to worry about using the money I set aside for real estate for moving expenses I only have 3 years to get something done if I don't I will be cut off alimony w nothing to show for it and that would be the end of ever feeling accomplished or anything. that would crush me hard

Divorce tragedy

Today I feel like im under a microscope I'm bieng questioned about everything I do, every where I go, who I'm w and I'm not in a relationship w the person whose doing this. We were at first but he chose to end things because I'm too heavy and not ambitious. He owns the house I live in and if I don't do what's "expected " I get threatened to get kicked out. I don't know what to do because all I want is to get through real estate school and try to be independent but feel like I'm bieng sabatoged for reasons only he knows. Real estate isn't easy it's a lot of classroom time and study how am I going to do this w the constant depression due to how he makes me feel. I'm praying ill b ok

Divorce Tragedy

This week is going to be hectic i just got done paying my taxes, which if ur not aware you will be penalized for not having insurance for 2014. I think taxes on alimony should be abolished. I mean y pay taxes on money that was already taxed? It doesnt make any sense its not like a job or anything but the govt doesnt care about women like me trying to get a leg up in the world to become self supporting. Im trying to get into the real estate business which my roommate keeps trying to discourage me i think out of competition or jeaulosy. He used to be a real estate agent and brocker which hes not doing anymore for various circumstances and may have legal issues to boot. Everyone deserves a chance I certainly dont need to be sabatoged which is really what im afraid of. Real estate is 8 hrs a day 5 days a week. I cant afford for anything to go wrong. Its timely and expensive but im willing to try to be proud of not only my independance but bieng able to say i did this for me.

Today i made a decision to move forward. My ex husband tried to tell me that he was going to claim the atty fees as alimony meaning that i would have to pay more for his fees he paid to my atty. I told him that i wasnt going to pay it bcz its not in the order. He saed hes been doing this for 2 yrs. I told him i would have him audited and if possible go back to court to recoup the loss. He argued this until he found out that i was serious. He finally backed off. If you are in this situation than just so you know if its not ordered as alimony than you dont have to pay it. Theres also something called smith osler order that states that if the paying spouse leaves the home, the other spouse that stays can be charged the rent or mortgage plus any repairs yard work and anything that is spent on the home. I was lucky my spouse stopped paying the mortgage the day he left so i was charged nothing. Also any cars you may have together or not if you sell it or one of them you can be charged for the amount you got for it if you dont prove your spouse has any kept asset that supercedes it.this is just what i read in the order. My divorce is final but just becouse you have the final decree doesnt mean your spouse wont try to get one over on you. Be careful and keep your eyes open

Divorce tragedy

My divorce is final crazy life has calmed down and now I'm ready for real estate. My biggest fears are not bieng able to fulfill what I set out to do. Have u ever started something and then something comes to sabatoge u? It's been that way for me most of my life. I know if I don't try ill never know. Classes are a bust from problems previously mentioned but now I am ready to start again and hopefully I'll succeed. Wish me luck I'll be finding out this week when classes start