Today i made a decision to move forward. My ex husband tried to tell me that he was going to claim the atty fees as alimony meaning that i would have to pay more for his fees he paid to my atty. I told him that i wasnt going to pay it bcz its not in the order. He saed hes been doing this for 2 yrs. I told him i would have him audited and if possible go back to court to recoup the loss. He argued this until he found out that i was serious. He finally backed off. If you are in this situation than just so you know if its not ordered as alimony than you dont have to pay it. Theres also something called smith osler order that states that if the paying spouse leaves the home, the other spouse that stays can be charged the rent or mortgage plus any repairs yard work and anything that is spent on the home. I was lucky my spouse stopped paying the mortgage the day he left so i was charged nothing. Also any cars you may have together or not if you sell it or one of them you can be charged for the amount you got for it if you dont prove your spouse has any kept asset that supercedes it.this is just what i read in the order. My divorce is final but just becouse you have the final decree doesnt mean your spouse wont try to get one over on you. Be careful and keep your eyes open