Divorce tragedy

Relationships after a divorce immediately is not a good idea nothing good can come of it. But when u r ready make sure the one u pick isn't on a rebound or is looking for a branch to hold on to. If they r recently going thru a divorce or kicked out themselves BIG RED FLAG. RUUUUN. They will later judge u on how u look how much weight u should lose or gain or when or if they do start getting attached tells u you should find someone else. Then when or if u do, they get mad or upset always checking on you asking u who r u texting where r u what r u doing who r u with its called wanting your cake and eating it too. They don't want you but they really don't want anyone else w u either in case things don't work out with someone else don't b fooled eventually they will move on w out u and looking for a scape goat to control. I should know I'm in this situation.